The 302 is a very high load block, and 4mm is just too small for a kite halyard.
I'd do something like this:
SpinBlock.pdf
...and cut a line entrance slot in the forward face of the mast, about 18" below the block.
If you want to use a through block, the same model as the jib would work just fine.
As for distance below the forestay, anything from a couple inches to as much as 8-9 inches is fine. The higher you go, the more parallel your halyard is to the stay, and the less it will "sheet" the stiff part at the top of the sail. I don't think you need to worry about getting too close from a structure point of view- just getting the fittings far enough apart so their fasteners don't interfere should be plenty of cutout separation.
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